tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492793455039836501.post4865610534133562622..comments2023-08-21T07:49:51.052-04:00Comments on Life of an Army Wife: Not Sure WhyRebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06316511791499949824noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492793455039836501.post-8570968828337818132012-02-11T21:05:49.697-05:002012-02-11T21:05:49.697-05:00I'm realizing that with how long she took to g...I'm realizing that with how long she took to get back to me.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06316511791499949824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492793455039836501.post-15371888634368534732012-02-10T17:53:37.006-05:002012-02-10T17:53:37.006-05:00Your RE's nurse should find another career, as...Your RE's nurse should find another career, as she doesn't have the right temperment for this one, obviously. ((HUGS))Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10069476011831712293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492793455039836501.post-79333095321282868022012-02-07T22:49:33.747-05:002012-02-07T22:49:33.747-05:00I'm going to let it go in one ear and out the ...I'm going to let it go in one ear and out the other as of today. I think we all have our insert foot into mouth moments and I'm going to say this had to be her's.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06316511791499949824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492793455039836501.post-44210295461852657562012-02-07T22:48:07.698-05:002012-02-07T22:48:07.698-05:00I'm going to demand to be tested.I'm going to demand to be tested.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06316511791499949824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492793455039836501.post-6624258248673989682012-02-07T21:00:16.768-05:002012-02-07T21:00:16.768-05:00I am so, so sorry! WTF with that nurse saying that...I am so, so sorry! WTF with that nurse saying that to you? It is so disappointing :(Her Royal Fabulousnesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04008723588326617669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492793455039836501.post-38054173561825019172012-02-07T19:26:57.972-05:002012-02-07T19:26:57.972-05:00I'm sorry the nurse added insult to injury. Ye...I'm sorry the nurse added insult to injury. Yeah, we get it lady, for it to be a 'real' pregnancy you've got to see a heartbeat on ultrasound, but to us, even the barely there of an early pregnancy is still a pregnancy. You just can't split hairs when it comes to the human heart. <br /><br />Any ONE of the things you mentioned could be causing you problems with implantation and maintaining a pregnancy. Doctors thought that my son had celiac disease, and it says that one of the possible symptoms is infertility. Even a touch of endo can prevent implantation. The only way you can rule out for certain whether or not you have celiac is a biopsy of your celia. My son had it done, it was a very simple out patient procedure done under full sedation. I hope that you get some answers.Chickenpighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09442755180328605920noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492793455039836501.post-38846378655729564352012-02-07T17:25:29.420-05:002012-02-07T17:25:29.420-05:00Thanks. Good luck on your IVF. I'll be think...Thanks. Good luck on your IVF. I'll be thinking of you.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06316511791499949824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492793455039836501.post-16396385611422283232012-02-07T16:54:32.744-05:002012-02-07T16:54:32.744-05:00I'm so sorry Rebecca. I'll keep you in my ...I'm so sorry Rebecca. I'll keep you in my thoughts I hope you get some answers.Living Our Life in Cycleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06985632430618813718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492793455039836501.post-71623652736940417862012-02-07T16:36:08.322-05:002012-02-07T16:36:08.322-05:00I'm going to make sure that they understand th...I'm going to make sure that they understand that this was a chemical pregnancy. I still have all 6 of test sticks which show conclusively to me that it was there and not an evaporation line. 3 days of testing two sticks a day and the last 1.5 days showed no lines not even an evaporation mark. So yes, Hope was there even if short lived, Hope was there.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06316511791499949824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492793455039836501.post-46496601930523480172012-02-07T16:34:45.939-05:002012-02-07T16:34:45.939-05:00Sarah, I'm going to try to get them to test me...Sarah, I'm going to try to get them to test me for that. There has got to be a reason why the embryos will implant then die off within a day or so of showing they were there on the HPT. Something in my body doesn't like the foreign matter of which they are considered to be.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06316511791499949824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492793455039836501.post-33386538778113695732012-02-07T16:33:36.465-05:002012-02-07T16:33:36.465-05:00The nurse is usually really nice maybe she was hav...The nurse is usually really nice maybe she was having a bad day?Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06316511791499949824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492793455039836501.post-49694752233482325352012-02-07T16:33:00.358-05:002012-02-07T16:33:00.358-05:00I talked a bit with my PCM today about all this. ...I talked a bit with my PCM today about all this. I have hope that my RE will run some lab tests, if I can convince him that Tricare should pay for all these expensive tests.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06316511791499949824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492793455039836501.post-14318549295965220752012-02-07T16:31:33.617-05:002012-02-07T16:31:33.617-05:00I'm just glad that you and Sam have Kenna. On...I'm just glad that you and Sam have Kenna. One of these days I'll get back to the East and see my newest cousin.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06316511791499949824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492793455039836501.post-84130091806680655182012-02-07T16:30:43.388-05:002012-02-07T16:30:43.388-05:00I would tell one the RE doctors but the nurse outr...I would tell one the RE doctors but the nurse outranks my husband because she is also military. It makes things a bit ticklish. When I called her back to schedule the WTF appt she was more receptive. Maybe I'll give her the benefit of doubt here and think that perhaps her programming made her say what she had said.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06316511791499949824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492793455039836501.post-73530206495314699792012-02-07T16:29:00.090-05:002012-02-07T16:29:00.090-05:00I'm not sure why the nurse who is normally so ...I'm not sure why the nurse who is normally so understanding was being rather inconsiderate yesterday. I did explain that indeed it did implant for a while because the HPT proved it was there.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06316511791499949824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492793455039836501.post-879122818417762802012-02-07T16:07:24.779-05:002012-02-07T16:07:24.779-05:00I am so sorry for your loss, Rebecca. I think it&...I am so sorry for your loss, Rebecca. I think it's BS that they don't call this a pregnancy. Good luck with your appt later this month.Fieryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06477507213781894921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492793455039836501.post-40547398760884392522012-02-07T16:05:35.268-05:002012-02-07T16:05:35.268-05:00I'm so sorry this didn't work :( Have you ...I'm so sorry this didn't work :( Have you ever been tested for NK cells (natural killer cells)?Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10364801556842061320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492793455039836501.post-43928035102583441972012-02-07T14:47:49.202-05:002012-02-07T14:47:49.202-05:00Many doctors/nurses don't consider you pregnan...Many doctors/nurses don't consider you pregnant unless it implants, or more. It sucks, and I'm sorry she was so callous and rude :(<br /><br />When I lost my second, there was a gestational sac (I had to pass it) but my RE at the time told me that it didn't really count as a pregnancy since they couldn't confirm there was a baby... which is BS, my betas were in the 5,000's and there was a sac, my embryo had implanted and began to grow. To me, they were all babies... no matter how early I lost them.<br /><br />Just saying that different doctors have different classifications for pregnancy... and it's a bitch, and they're sometimes callous and apathetic towards it. Which SUCKS and is unfair to a grieving patient. You had an embryo, that was the start of life no matter how you spin it. Grieve your baby (*HUGS*) Don't let that apathetic nurse get under your skin; not worth it. Talk to your doctor about it, but don't give her any more thought than that. She obviously doesn't get it at all. Ugh.AnotherDreamerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11487881766884178761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492793455039836501.post-79998681913475747822012-02-07T13:02:57.236-05:002012-02-07T13:02:57.236-05:00I am so so sorry this did not work out for you. It...I am so so sorry this did not work out for you. It sounds like you have a lot going on in your medical history that could provide some answers. Have you ever heard of this website? http://www.ivfauthority.com/<br />There's a ton of good information including stuff about immune issues. Wish there was something more I could do.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02556722325372102710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492793455039836501.post-7562507864756850332012-02-07T13:01:28.487-05:002012-02-07T13:01:28.487-05:00So sorry, Becky. Get some answers so you know how...So sorry, Becky. Get some answers so you know how to proceed. The doctors even told me that they have a plan if we want to try again, but Sam is afraid that I might just not make it next time. So, Kenna is our last chance. <br /><br />Thinking of you. Sending hugs!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14177305774947287432noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492793455039836501.post-25283898552759091802012-02-07T12:56:44.884-05:002012-02-07T12:56:44.884-05:00"Yesterday when my RE's nurse gave me the..."Yesterday when my RE's nurse gave me the result, she said I was never really pregnant." This one made my blood boil. I can't think of a crueler thing to say to someone, especially someone going through fertility treatments. You need to tell your RE about what she said because it's clear she needs someone in a position of authority to sit her ass down and explain the obvious. <br /><br />Again, I'm so very sorry Rebecca. There are no words for the tragedy of this loss. I hope your WTF meeting with the RE is productive and that you're able to come up with a plan. I'm thinking of you during this time.Cristyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04317873211902543387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7492793455039836501.post-81548508157106483582012-02-07T12:51:41.545-05:002012-02-07T12:51:41.545-05:00Rebecca I am praying that you will get the answers...Rebecca I am praying that you will get the answers you deserve. I hope that you will be able to try again. Your nurse is a very insenstive woman. Regardless on her own personal opinions rather an embryo being implanted means pregnant or not. She is an absolute jerk for saying that to you! Honestly people like that shouldnt be working in this industry if they dont even have enough respect for a person in pain to be comforting! My heart is breaking for you and I want you to get some answers.Just Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06315564549299993908noreply@blogger.com