Okay so some of what I tried on my daughter last month worked and some of it didn't.
Taking away television did work.
Time out on toys did work.
Smacking her butt when she hit me did work.
But she is continuing with her bad behavior when over tired.
She is still having troubles sleeping. The melatonin did not work.
When over tired she acts out so bad that I have to put her into the approved hold where her back is to my belly and wrap my arms and legs around her. She head buts me. I took a head butt to the chin yesterday. That hurt.
While trying to get her into pull ups for a naps she kicked me in the throat. She was angry. I had given her the option of wearing her pull ups for the nap or rubber pants over cotton training pants. She wanted regular cotton panties. I told her that wasn't an option. She got violent. She had a bar bottom and I didn't want her wetting the bed. No nap. She stayed up. I had several hours before I got my voice back fully from the kick to my throat.
Last night I again tried the new tactic and this morning. She is slowly getting the idea that she will be given only 2 options. Like this morning for breakfast. I gave her the options of waffles or cheerios. She said she wanted french toast. I said no that it wasn't an option. She got upset. I then told her she would have no breakfast if she didn't pick one of the two options.
I'm trying to be fair with her since she is so strong willed. I really don't want to spank my child. But I don't like being her punching bag either. The smack I do occasionally give her is not bad. It hurts her pride more than anything.
I told my mother about the kick to the throat I got and my mother said it is time to bring out the belt. I had her on speaker. My daughter didn't like hearing that while I was cooking her bacon and eggs that she had requested for dinner. Mind you I can't eat bacon or eggs.
I'm trying the best that I can dear readers.
