Tuesday, June 25, 2013

Just A Reminder To My Readers

This is my blog.

I shall write in what I want within the bounds of the law.

If you don't like what I write feel free not to read it.

If you try to be a troll with your comment I will refuse to publish it.  Or if I publish it I will either post an apology or a rebuttal to the comment.

With that said here is a vent about this morning.

I called my local RE clinic to find out if lab result number three was finally in.  I've been waiting on the results of the Beta2 Glycoprotein antibody test.

Me:  This is (me) I was wondering if you had the test result and would fax it to PNW.

Nurse S:  Who ordered the test?

Me: Either Dr. B or Dr. B.

Nurse S:  No.  Did PNW order the test?

Me: Yes but Nurse JF called PNW and had one of your doctors order the test through your clinic.

Nurse S:  I"m rather busy here with a person from another clinic. I'll call you right back.

That was over an hour ago.  Please do not say to me that you will call me right back if you have no intention of calling me within a reasonable amount of time.

Oh and as for yesterday's now missing blog post.  Whomever you were that decided to be a bit of troll, well if you had read the blog and had been reading it for any length of time you'd know that I read each and every blog post to my spouse when he is mentioned in it.  In this case I did post that I was going to email him the blog link for the day.  Now please do get off my back.  My blog is a place where I will write whatever I want and vent freely.  Without venting, since it is such good and cheap therapy, I would probably have had a second heart attack by now.

To make that troll happy I removed the blog post.  Will I do that again?  Highly unlikely.  I mean come now, who hasn't had issues with a spouse's dirty laundry, dirty dishes or dirty vehicle raising one's hackles a bit?  Troll, are you such a paragon of virtue that your life is so perfect that you have never, ever aired your dirty laundry to another person?  If you are so perfect then let me applaud you and ask why you are still on this earth and not in heaven with wings and a halo?

Gossip is an art.  We air our dirty laundry in a semi-secret way here on our blogs to get insight into the lives of others and so that we know we aren't alone.  Every one of us non-perfect humans can be a slob and has been a slob sometime in our lives. 

Oh and if you know me personally troll and decided to be anonymous;  well shame on you for being such a weakling and not coming right out and being blunt with me.  I prefer a person to be truthful with me.  I accept well meant criticism because it is given to help improve my life. 

However, if given assvice I will of course ignore it and consider the source it came from.

34 comments:

  1. WOW what is it with rude judgmental jerks commenting these days?? Can no one have a personal space to talk about their lives and feelings without others passing judgment? I have seen this a lot lately and it's always when someone is talking about their life and their family and not hurting anyone. So ridiculous! GO AWAY TROLLS! :-P

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    1. Well as of this blog posting I lost another follower. So be it. Might have been the troll?

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  2. You are so right! Unfortunately, the Internet allows cowards to unleash their hate without consequence. It's annoying. My blog is my therapy too. So I totally understand you.

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    1. Yeah most of us like to use our blogs as therapy and I'm all for that. Life is real so live it. I wonder if my troll does anything but look to cause havoc?

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    2. YES I loved what you said! Cowards unleashing their hate!

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  3. I'm sorry that you have yourself a troll and I'm sorry that you felt like you had to remove your post because of someone else. Your blog, your right to post what you want.

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    1. I probably shouldn't have removed the post. It is gone now...such is life.

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  4. You're right, this is YOUR space. Sorry you were dealing with a troll :(

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    1. I love to read your blog and I hope you never get a troll that makes you feel like you need to take a post down.

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  5. Good for you :) Vent all you want, you're not alone. By the way, you can set it up so all comments have to be approved (That way you can just delete them and move on). I wish you the best and hope things start looking up from here on out.

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  6. Ugh, the nerve of some people. I am so sorry to hear that you have a troll and even more sorry that you felt you should take down that blog post. If you can't be honest on your blog, where can you be honest these days? Geez....

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    1. The heck with the trolls from now on. I sensor enough with being an Army Wife.

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  7. UGH. Good for you for putting it all out there. Hope the clinic calls you back soon. I don't know how you stand up to their constant rudeness!

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  8. RUDE! UG! What is worse, IMO, is that it absolutly goes against the spirit of the blogging community! I dont give a single bother (think whinny the poo) what you are blogging about. Us bloggers are all writing for our lives and our sanity! (ok and maybe to help others,.. and maybe for cash if youre that kind of blogger,.. or maybe to teach others things,.. BUT YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN!)

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    1. Blogging is the modern form of gossip and gossip is considered an art form.

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  9. Wow people are so ridiculous!!! Write anything you want, your real supporters will stick around. :)

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  10. I'm sorry you have to deal with a troll. You should be able to write whatever you want since it's YOUR blog.
    I hope you hear back from that nurse tomorrow. How rude that she didn't call you back.

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  11. Wow! People never cease to amaze me. I have the same rule on my blog and FB page. If you don't like what I post, do not read my blog. You will not hurt my feelings if you don't. You will, however, piss me off if you tell me I'm wrong for what I post. I have enough stress and drama in my life that I have no control over. I don't need someone coming into the place where I express my feelings and making judgement. Please don't ever let someone else dictate what you post. It is your blog! Your feelings! Your place for expression! And I thought your post was GREAT!!!!

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    1. They just need to walk away from the computer if they don't want to read what I write.

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  12. I didn't see the other post, but screw the troll! Post what you want. Really, the only person you have to answer to besides yourself is your husband and even that I'm not too sure about. :P

    I'm sorry the woman at the clinic is being such an asshat as well.

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  13. I have no idea what happened but trolls are obnoxious, and ridiculous. Sorry for the hurt he/she caused.

    And that professional should not commit to anything she does not want to do in reality.

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  14. Woah I missed it, what did you post that Pissed of a Bridge dweller? (aka Troll) This is YOUR BLOG, I have rarely seen anything that would make anyone upset or anything like that.... sorry hun!

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    1. I complained about my husband being a pig by not bringing his dirty lunch containers into the house and letting them instead pile up in the garage for a week.

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  15. Oh jeez some people should just stay under their bridge. I too missed the post but no matter what it said I doesn't matter because this is YOUR blog. If they are so entitled they can get their own .

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    1. No it doesn't matter but I guess to them it did.

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  16. Screw the trolls. Husbands need to be bitched about, or else our frustration may get pent up and lead to more damaging things.

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If you decide to be a Troll I will refuse to pay your toll and your comment will not appear.