Little update. I wrote to my friend "Jane" the "bestie" a few times over the past few days. These were my messages to her:
On the 9th I reposted a blog post, in a message to her, she had written herself about how she wanted Abortions to stop.
So are you still going through with the abortion?
Are you going through with it today?
We had a good friendship while it lasted. I cannot in good conscious
support this decision of yours to abort a baby "just because" it
doesn't fit into your life plan right now.
I'm sorry but it just
hurts me too much. I did make a generous offer to take the child off
your hands and would gladly have done so.
You will just have to understand that I can no longer be your friend.
Have a good life.
I removed the "bestie" from my life and social media when she didn't respond to my messages asking if she was going through with it over the three days prior to the set date for abortion. She posted puppy pictures on her social media instead of responding to me.
Today I get a message from her on the social media:
I didn't abort it, dear R!
We just came home from Grocery
Shopping and from running other errands all day ( like getting Stuff
for B's Birthday on the 17th, in 2 days )
Thank you for showing me how far your " support in no matter what " actually goes.
And one other thing: I wanted to ask if J would like to become Godfather for E once I talked it over with A... but ok.
Yes, we had a lot of Fun while it lasted.
Have a good Life too
Mind you she and her spouse have no religion and her husband doesn't believe in any god so this was most likely written to hurt me and to hurt J. I did call my husband and he is so angry right now. He feels hurt and betrayed by her.
So for three days she couldn't pick up the phone or message me back or even jump into her suv and drive the 2 bloody miles to my domain and tell me in person she decided to not have the abortion. No instead I've been mentally tortured.
My response to her message: