Other than being sick yesterday I don't have much to dampen my spirits. Still spotting with lower back and pelvic pain but no where near as bad as it was before.
I managed to dye my hair today.
I'll get started on laundry as soon as J wakes up. He had CQ duty last night and our laundry room isn't far from the bedroom walls.
I'm looking forward to the marriage retreat. This one is in Seattle. Though I've lived in Western Washington for four and a half years I've never stayed over night or shopped in Seattle. I've been dragged through it with my husband's friend looking for the utili-kilt place and I've been there four times for the two IVFs.
I'm not expecting much so if fun is to be had I'll be pleasantly surprised. I'm going to the marriage retreat to work on the marriage not go out on the town. I have good communication skills but J doesn't so that makes it hard on the marriage. I blow my top easily, thanks to the borderline personality disorder and PTSD, while J remains calm. J is the passive aggressive sort. He'll still get what he wants using his own ways. Our marriage has a lot of room for improvement and I do see us growing old together.
Yesterday I watched Raising Arizona for the first time. How could one infertile couple justify stealing a kid from another infertile couple even if they did have more than they bargained for? Stupid premise. That movie gives infertile couples a bad reputation.