Honestly I've known for a while that the military RE office doesn't care. If they can't throw clomid at the victim and knock them up within 3 cycles then they basically write you off. Well okay they'll keep you if you've got the money for up to two rounds of IVF but that is it. I was going to be let go from the clinic after the second IVF failed. See they don't let you do three IVFs here even if you are the one paying for it all.
I'm sick of this nonsense.
Last night I called the IVF nurse coordinator who also coordinates the donor eggs. She finally called me back at 0852 hrs. So much for the first call of the day at 0730 hrs.
She said they won't do another ultrasound. I kind of figured they wouldn't I told her.
She said they'd need a urine sample to check for a bladder infection. I told her it isn't my bladder. I've had a bladder infection before and I remember well what that feels like. I explained to her it hurts to get into the squat position to pee and the muscles spasm after causing a lot of pain making my body not want to pee for fear of pain.
She said 100 is not a fever. She said I am most probably just ovulating. She said they don't go by temperatures any longer as they aren't accurate. Really? I said to her that I still have all my old temperature charts and never was it 100 and if she'd like to see them I'm more than willing to bring them in for her.
I said to her so what you are saying is that you aren't worried about this. She said, "no". I said okay then whatever. Yes I did say whatever.
When I said the whatever she said she could run it by Dr.C. later today and see what he thinks. So in that time where she should have been getting back to me first thing in the morning she wasn't even asking the doctor's opinion. Great!
What I'm wondering is where is Lt.Col. B. Today is the day he is at the clinic. He does research on endometriosis and only has clinic hours one day a week...THURSDAYS. So why wouldn't he be able to answer the questions I have?
Wait I think I did already say that the RE office didn't care right?
I'm guessing that I should have done what my spouse suggested last night, we were both in our pajamas and I didn't want him to have to change, and go directly to the ER. I figured that with it being Thursday the next day that Lt.Col.B. would be the one to handle this. He is truly the only one there right now that actually cares. He insisted that the clinic push forward without orders in hand from PNW to start the testing now.
J is pissed. I'm upset. Oh and because I'm still supposed to do timed intercourse this week I'm supposed to have sex tonight because the pain I'm feeling, according to the nurse, is just ovulation pain. This is not ovulation pain!
Happy Valentine's Day to all that celebrate. I'll be celebrating with a hot rice bag from bed.